As a continuation from https://spicesforlife.org/?p=3139
I want to stress the importance of believing in your man and not putting him under pressure. I’ve heard women say I don’t care how you do it you must provide for the home. 👀 aunty SURUUUUUU
I solely believed in his judgment and vision for our family, he decided to do what any reasonable forward-thinking man should do, he decided to go for additional training to broaden his chances of getting a job. We pulled from our savings. Heavy something- but listen it’s just money our relationship was more important. We make money such a hinderance in marriages, I will still come back to that another time.
He left me with a toddler and a new born and went away for almost 2 months for training. He came back and still nothing but we move.
As we came into 2018, hubby embarked on a 40 day fast, I saw his faith in God skyrocket. It was admirable.
I remember going for a program really disturbed like God, this fire is too much now. I was determined to do something I’ve never done before. As per formula, I went to the front of the auditorium to roll on the ground 🤣🤣 you know to show God that i was serious 🤣🤣.
That’s how God told me in these exact words “ better get up don’t dirty your cloth” 🤣🤣God speaks to me in pidgin sometimes. As I stood up He said “I love kehinde more in a moment than you ever could in a lifetime, I know what I’m doing” so I decided to relax.
About a week, his old job called him back I thought 😳 wawuuuu!!! Long story, hubby turned it down, there’s nobody that didn’t call him to beg or counsel him to take it. He felt something better would come. It’s important to note that there are only 2 companies in Nigeria he could work for. The one calling him back and another but they weren’t hiring. Infact someone said, George if you don’t take this offer, consider your career over. Humans speaking like God😰
To the human eye, this was a stupid move to make. But He was adamant, even me I was like are you sure, baby? He said yes! I said ok now. Man, like K black Okurin meta!! A man’s man.
Months passed nothing until one day, somebody say one day 🤣🤣 when God turned around the captivity of Zion, they were like them that DREAMED!