I used to believe that young men and women who were engaged in premarital sex were enjoying more than those of us abstaining from premarital sex.
I now understand that it was a big lie from the pit of hell. It’s just a waste of time and lack of proper knowledge that any single person will decide to engage in something that God has reserved for married couples.
In fact, if you are single and dating and you obey God by abstaining from premarital sex then I can assure you, you will enjoy a better marriage life. Because you will learn to accept and express genuine love without sexual feelings charged with lust and infatuations.
Presently, my wife and I love and respect each other without sex (because we learn that during our dating years) and don’t really need sex to tell ourselves we love each other. She knows that I love her not because we have sex and likewise I also know that she loves me not because of sex. The way we treat each other is enough to communicate to us that we love and respect each other.
Honestly, I don’t really see love in sex in dating relationship, it’s just some pleasure. And don’t forget this; you can’t build a successful relationship or marriage on sensual pleasures, it won’t work. This is one reason why most relationships aren’t working.
Below are the ten important reasons why you don’t need sex in a dating relationship, it’s just a waste of time to engage in it.
- SEX IS NOT LOVE
Don’t let anyone fool you, sex is never love. If sex is love then prostitutes are the best people to express it because they are always sleeping with people they don’t love.
- LOVE IS NOT SEX
Having sex with someone doesn’t mean you love the person. And you don’t need to have sex with anyone in order to prove your love for that person. Any person who tells you to prove your love by having sex with you has a big problem, let him or her see your Pastor for prayers.
- SEX DOESN’T HOLD COUPLES TOGETHER
Honestly, dating couples who fight a lot are those who engage in premarital sex. They think sex is a glue that can bind them together forgetting that it’s God who holds couples together and not sex.
- PREMARITAL SEX IS AGAINST GOD’S WORD
Most dating couples are always having issues and unnecessary conflicts in their relationships because they don’t honor God’s word. And anywhere God’s word is not honored God is also absent. How do you expect God to bless your relationship when you don’t respect Him?
- SEX OPENS DOORS FOR DEMONS INTO THE RELATIONSHIP
Because premarital sex is against God’s word and dishonors God, it honors the devil. No wonder most relationships aren’t working irrespective of what the couples do. Because instead of God being the third party, demons are rather in charge.
- A GREAT SEX PARTNER CAN’T GUARANTEE A LIFE PARTNER
It’s so foolish to assume that a great sex partner can be a great partner. Because when you marry, there’s more to marriage than having sex. And if sex is your number one priority for marriage then I’m sorry you will soon regret. Just mark it.
- SEX CLOUDS YOUR THINKING
Reasons most dating couples have a lot of issues is that sex has blinded them from seeing and reasoning with their heads. There’s no way you can think properly about your partner’s character and attitude if you are engaging in sex instead of studying the person.
- SEX DESTROYS TRUST
Most trust issues are as a result of premarital sex. Because if your partner can sleep with you when you aren’t married to him or her then it’s possible he or she can sleep with anyone they are not married to, simple! And you taught them that.
- SEX DESTROYS THE ESSENCE OF THE RELATIONSHIP
The essence of relationship is to study each other and learn how to love, respect and accept each other’s difference. Therefore relationship is not for sexing but rather for studying each other. Most relationships that don’t work are as results of this.
- SEX IS NOT THE KEY TO A LASTING RELATIONSHIP
Having sex every day will not guarantee you a lasting relationship or marriage. People have sex and the next minute they fight and break up. So knowing all the sexual skills will not guarantee you a lasting marriage else prostitutes will be the best partners for a lasting marriage because they know almost everything about sex.
AFTER KNOWING ALL THESE AND YOU CONTINUE TO ENGAGE IN PREMARITAL SEX, THEN I THINK YOU DON’T LOVE YOURSELF.
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