95% of conflicts, break ups and divorce are caused by couples in the relationship or marriage. The remaining 5% is as a result of external factors which still need the concern or approval of the couples. Honestly if your relationship … Continue reading WAYS TO DESTROY YOUR RELATIONSHIP
This video is the 4 types of men and their reaction and how they treat women in their lives.These men include the hunter and the gardener #trueintimacy #intimacycoaching #beyondintimacy #intimacytip #intimacyissues #openness #intimacycoach #intimacy #relationship #embodiment #relationshipquotes #vulnerability #relationshipgoals #sacredintimacy #intimacyexpert #funnycouples #feelings #forever #lovelycouples #relatable #loveunconditionally #longdistancerelationship #relationshipgoals #comics #couplecomics #comiclovers #catanacomics #cartooncouple #comicseries #murrzstudio #murrz #girlcomics #illustrator #illustration #doodlesofinstagram #dofollow #truelove #dailycomic #scriptednotes #brokenheartquotes #lovecomics #hairdresser #webtoon #comic #couplegoals Continue reading The 4 types of men
Marriage vows what are they really, just sweet words we hope to abide by. When there is no love but pain do we wait on death to do us part. In our short comings we must refuse to be short … Continue reading Marriage vows
On August 25th Nantongo Immaculate took to her social media platform particularly Facebook to share pictures of her separation and inspiration from embracing life. Below are excepts So finally my divorce is final yeeeeeeey after 6yrs of separation. Today I … Continue reading Happly Divorced; How Nantongo Immaculate choose to embrace her new life.
While you may not be familiar with the term gaslighting, you might be familiar with the description and the toll it can cause on a relationship. Gaslighting is a tactic in which a person or entity manipulates another person in … Continue reading Gaslighting in Relationships
If you are to ask anyone who is married or divorced about his/her understanding of the role of love in marriage, the answer will be the same; love is not enough to keep and sustain any marriage. Some marriage couples … Continue reading CAN LOVE ALONE NOT ENOUGH TO SUSTAIN A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE
I used to believe that young men and women who were engaged in premarital sex were enjoying more than those of us abstaining from premarital sex. I now understand that it was a big lie from the pit of hell. It’s just a waste of time and lack of proper knowledge that any single person will decide to engage in something that God has reserved for married couples. In fact, if you are single and dating and you obey God by abstaining from premarital sex then I can assure you, you will enjoy a better marriage life. Because you will … Continue reading REASONS WHY YOU DON’T NEED SEX IN YOUR DATING RELATIONSHIP
Dear Beautiful, Gorgeous, Smart, Intelligent and God loving Sisters, I would like to introduce you to someone. Let’s call her Akua. Recently, Akua was going on a date with a potential “future husband”, so she sent me a message to get my honest and brotherly opinion about her “future husband” and men generally. Giggling like a teenager, she was excited because her dream of getting married this year finally looked like a reality – by the way, she is approaching the age of 30. She had been in a few failed relationships, tried a Ben 10 (younger lover), and had even … Continue reading Dearest SINGLE WOMEN
“You can’t have a serious relationship with an unserious effort!” That’s a quote for me that sums up the relationship mishaps for a lot of single people I know. If you want a serious relationship and a serious marriage, then … Continue reading 10 Ways to Get Out of Singleness in 2021
It hurts to realize that someone you considered close is using you and that they don’t actually want to be a real friend. In situations like these, it’s easy to shy away from the truth at first, ignoring the signs and living in a state of denial. The fact of the matter is that until you face the situation and truly take a deep look at your friend’s behavior, nothing can improve. Please listen, you will be blessed #love #relationship #rejections #brokenheart #love #truth Continue reading LIFE FACTS : Some People Just Want To Use You
A friend of mine once ask me why the ladies who were considered bad girls back in school are married whilst the good ones remain single and some don’t even get married at all. I couldn’t answer the question tangibly … Continue reading Why good girls remain single and bad girls get married Saturday after Saturday.
Too many people close them selves off to the world and vow never to love again all because they was hurt before and don’t want go through the pain of it again but the truth of the matter is its just a part of life that we all had been through use this time to […] Be responsible for your actions — Realtalkwithmatty.wordpress.com Continue reading Be responsible for your actions — Realtalkwithmatty.wordpress.com
Always love your spouse.Believe in each other.Celebrate each other often.Don’t argue but always reason together.Expect imperfections from your spouse.Fix solutions to problems on time.Go for a walk together once a week. Hold each other’s hands often.Ignite the passion in your spouse daily. Just laugh over issues worth criticizing.Kill the spirit of unhealthy competition.Let your spouse know your movements.Make love like newly weds.No separate room for you both.Oppose any intruder or third party.Pray together always. Quality time should be spent together.Resist every temptation of infidelity. Stay positive to each other’s vision.Take no record of past offence.Utilize every opportunity to bond.Visualize a … Continue reading The Basis Of Intimacy In Marriage
From last week I have been inundated with people asking how to break the addiction of masturbation. Yes, I was a Christian and a leader in the ministry but still struggled with this. I confessed to my fellow leaders and was rebuked. I’d like to share my story, again. It might help someone.As a young man in my 20’s, I was into masturbation. Heavily. Interestingly after the meeting, some of the other leaders came to confess to me that they were guilty of the same.I then embarked on a personal retreat at the beach, to wrestle with God until I … Continue reading Uncle Ebo on how to break the addiction of masturbation
IF GOD EVER BRINGS A DESTINY HELPER YOUR WAY: 1. Honor him/her 2. Prayerfully Guard your relationship with Prayers. 3. Give Value : A Destiny Helper may need a little help in an insignificant area. 4. Speak well of your … Continue reading Ways to keep Destiny helpers
The loss of the job tested him in previous column https://spicesforlife.org/?p=3142, the circumstances as a result tested me, our interactions within the circumstances tested the marriage. I started by saying Marriage is a covenant, not a contract. If you are … Continue reading We boarded the plane of testing and trials IV -Mrs Black
As a continuation from https://spicesforlife.org/?p=3139 I want to stress the importance of believing in your man and not putting him under pressure. I’ve heard women say I don’t care how you do it you must provide for the home. 👀 … Continue reading We boarded the plane of testing and trials III -Mrs Black
Every single marriage will go through its seasons and its tests, no one is exempt. Not one person. I sincerely asked if all of this was necessary, we weren’t big spenders prior, we did only what was needed at the … Continue reading We boarded the plane of testing and trials II -Mrs Black
I’m aware that people hardly share the complexities and struggle that comes with this union called marriage. And I’d say this off the bat if you don’t view marriage has a covenant, the series of my next posts aren’t for … Continue reading We boarded the plane of testing and trials I -Mrs Black
Confident women don’t wait for men to decide if they want them or not. They set a timetable they’re comfortable with and leave men who aren’t ready. Jill Scott made a remarkable comment that she gives a man six months to … Continue reading Confident women don’t wait for men to decide
I’m 34 years old and am finally moving on after 15 years of being the other woman. I can’t believe I gave him all of my twenties and half of my thirties. It was hard leaving him, but it’s all … Continue reading Story of a Side Chick
A side chick is a mistress or she’s the other woman in your man’s life. Sometimes people perceive this act as normal but no, it is not. It is not right to overlook any illegal affair by your husband as … Continue reading HOW TO DEAL WITH A SIDE CHICK SITUATION
In the morning David wrote a letter to Joab and sent it with Uriah. In the letter he wrote, “Put Uriah in the front lines where the fighting is the fiercest. Then pull back and leave him exposed so that he’s sure to be killed. 2 Samuel 11:14-15 “Then pull back and leave him exposed…” Uriah did not die because he could not handle the intensity of the battle, but he died because of the negligence of those who were supposed to support him in the battle zone. His fellow soldiers sold him out. Those who were supposed to cover … Continue reading DID YOU PULL BACK?
Pay attention to who you’re with when you feel your best. How you are treated is more important than how much you like someone. Read it again. You can leave a toxic relationship but if you don’t heal what attracted … Continue reading Tips every single should know about relationships
Terry was an atheist on the last day of high school when he asked himself, “What are you going to do with the rest of your life, Terry?” (As you might have guessed, he was sufficiently disconnected from his family … Continue reading Turning Bad Experience to fuel series: Terry’s Story
Not everyone communicates love in the same way, and likewise, people have different ways they prefer to receive love. The concept of love languages was developed by Gary Chapman, Ph.D., in his book The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts, where he describes these five unique styles of communicating love, categories he distilled from his experience in marriage counseling and linguistics. The five Love languages and are in five different dimensions of expressing and receiving love. These include words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, and physical touch. We all may relate to most of … Continue reading Teach me to love you Series:The love languages
Is it true that a spell of witchcraft can help one find love? Let’s face it, a number of career women and housewives today are turning to witchcraft for love. What’s pushing many into the practice. “Why should a girl exist without a man today? I mean, if you want him, you can get him regardless of whether he is interested in you or not. Trust me, there are certain ways to make him want you, just visit a recommended native doctor and you can have it done without a hassle,” said Lorna (not real names), a single mother. The … Continue reading Does love charm work?
Dear son, I know you might be anxious to read this letter but please do not open Until you’re 16. This is father trying to reach you from the other side with a gladden heart knowing that not me nor … Continue reading Opened Letter to my Son
There is a proverb in Ghana that state advice doesn’t change a person until trials. Well Akua, a young could relate with this proverb. Akua at age 19year had a rare heart to heart discussion with her mother and had … Continue reading Turning Bad Experience to fuel series: The Porn
We all have our own paths in life and my path is not the same as yours or anyone else’s. I believe that some people will have a fairly smooth journey through life with no major ups or downs. But … Continue reading Turning Bad Experience to fuel series:The Friendship